The December holidays are a time for joy, connection, and family traditions. However, for families navigating shared custody, this season can also bring unique challenges. Planning how to share time with your children during the holidays is essential for minimizing stress and ensuring your kids have the best possible experience. With thoughtful preparation, you can create a plan that works for everyone and keeps the focus on what matters most—your children’s happiness.
The holiday season is full of special moments, from Christmas morning to New Year’s celebrations. Without a clear plan in place, the excitement of these occasions can quickly turn into confusion or conflict. A detailed custody agreement that outlines how December holidays will be shared can help you avoid last-minute disputes and make the season enjoyable for everyone involved.
Key Questions for December Custody Planning
When drafting or revising your custody arrangement for the holidays, consider the following:
- How will you split Christmas? Some families alternate Christmas Day each year, while others split the day itself—one parent has Christmas Eve, and the other has Christmas morning.
- What about school breaks? Will one parent have the children for the first half of the winter break and the other for the second half?
- Do you have unique family traditions? Whether it’s decorating the tree, visiting Santa, or enjoying a holiday dinner, make sure both parents have the opportunity to share meaningful traditions with the children.
- How will you handle other celebrations? If your family observes Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, or New Year’s, decide how these days will be divided or shared.
- Will there be any travel involved? If one parent is planning to take the children out of town to visit extended family, how will travel dates and permissions be coordinated?
Answering these questions in advance will help ensure a smooth holiday season with fewer misunderstandings.
- Start the conversation early. Discuss holiday plans well before December to give both parents time to prepare.
- Be fair and flexible. If one parent had Christmas morning last year, consider alternating or finding a balanced arrangement.
- Keep the children’s needs first. Your kids will remember the joy of the season, not the logistics. Focus on creating positive memories for them.
- Coordinate gift-giving. To avoid duplicate presents or competition, work together to plan what you’ll give your children.
The holidays don’t have to be stressful. At Galbraith Family Law, we can help you create or update your custody agreement to include detailed provisions for the December holiday season. Whether it’s coordinating Christmas morning, planning New Year’s celebrations, or ensuring everyone has their fair share of family time, we’ll help you create a plan that works for your family.
Contact us today to get started. Reach out via our website or call us directly. Our Newmarket office can be reached at (289) 802-2433, and our Barrie office is available at (705) 302-1102. Together, we can make the holidays a joyful time for your children and a stress-free season for you.
